Finding Yourself Again If You’re Feeling Lost
Have you ever experienced that situation in where you have your life sorted out? Living it all happy and dandy and not worrying about anything? Then suddenly everything went downhill from there and it seems that you can’t pick up yourself together and can’t figure a way how to fix it? And no matter what you do it seems that nothing will be back to normal?
My friend, we have all been there, sometimes not just once but multiple times. Others are still suffering from that crisis. It might be the passing of someone you hold dearly, a sudden collapse of your business, or your loved one left you for an unknown reason. Getting back on your own feet from this impasse may seem to be impossible to some, but there are ways out there that can help you move on with your life.
Turning Sorrow into Motivation
This may be a tall order for the most of us who are knee-deep in their crisis. However, all things that happen in our lives are solvable, given that we use a specific approach to tackle it. One of the best things to avert your focus is converting your sorrow into motivation. Think of it this way, a company that you dreamed to be a part of did not hire you. Of course, you will feel bad about yourself and probably will be depressed at the same time. You need to use this feeling to your advantage. In this way, you can turn the tables and become more successful that you will ever be. Just a mental note: The best revenge is being successful in life, and turning failures into motivation is the first step.
Finding the Right Path
Now that you have started your journey in pulling back yourself together, it is important to know the right path in doing that. Since there is no definite rule on how to find the right path. The best thing that you need to do first is to look at all possible variables from all different angles. In this way, you can narrow down all your options and pick out the best and reasonable approach that you have. Asking yourself If you can do it this way, or choose that path. What will be the pros and cons that you will tackle along and if it will help you gain or make you lose? This is a great way of evaluating your decisions and double-checking all your choices at the same time.
Passion with Purpose
Adding passion to the path that you have chosen will totally solidify your goals to be reached. Adding dedication into the mix will greatly help you in focusing yourself on your goal. With this passion, you can discipline yourself in doing the things that might ruin your plans and will eliminate any distractions along the way. Dedication and passion also have that effect of lightening up your load by making you more immersed in what you do and the notion of getting yourself back up from crisis.
Filling In Support Vacancy
Support from other people is vital in your comeback journey. Their warm support, encouragement and honest feedbacks will not just motivate you, but also spot out your mistakes along the way. It tells you on what aspect you can improve more. Of course, you need to carefully choose the ones who can truly be helpful to you and support you along your journey. And do not listen to people who may give you false feedback and support just for their hidden agendas.
Enjoy Life to the Fullest
Just like how others treat life, always think that it is an adventure and not a goal. You will probably be spending more time on your way to success than enjoying it, and all the best life lessons and experiences are learned along the way. Not all experiences that you may get are good ones, sometimes there are bad ones too mixed in. All these experiences, either bad or good, can be a vital source of life lessons which you can use to make yourself better. Enjoy life and savor every moment of it, for we have only one life in this world and sinking yourself in negativity will make you miss all the best things in life.
Getting back from a crisis truly is a hard and sometimes long journey back to the top. However, with the proper mindset, dedication, and knowledge plus the support and feedback of the people you truly trust, it will become more enjoyable, memorable and fun at the same time.